The Art of Compromise. Sharon likens siblings learning to share a room to newlyweds learning to share a home. When two children are able to understand the importance of finding a middle ground that incorporates each other’s likes and dislikes, they have discovered a valuable life lesson. “Home is the first world they experience,” explains Sharon. “What they learn here they take forward, and that is how they treat the world.” Sharing a room teaches kids how to get along with not only each other, but also people in general.
Sharing and Caring. When children share a room, they have unlimited opportunities to practice showing Christ’s love to each other. As a mom, you have unlimited opportunities to teach them how. With the older child, seek to hone his leadership skills. Encourage him to step up to the place the Lord has given him in the family. Help him understand that he has the position of serving as a role model—for good or bad.
Sharon suggests finding a fabric that both children can agree on. Use that as your springboard. It can show up in the valances, dust ruffles, throw pillows, or as a background for bulletin boards or headboards. And discount the flexibility as well as the affordability of a coat of paint! “You can’t go wrong with paint,” Sharon explains, “because you can always just re-paint.”
Sharing a room teaches kids how to get along with each other, developing friendships by keeping children close when school and other activities are vying for their time. Make the most of shared spaces! There are only so many years siblings are at home together, and there is only so much time for making memories.
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